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How not to get hired: Bring your cockatoo to the interview

You might have heard an urban legend about a job seeker who goes on a lunch interview with his potential boss. When the meal arrives, the job seeker sprinkles salt on his food before tasting it. Immediately the employer knows she has no interest in hiring this man. The job seeker isn’t flexible but he is presumptuous. No one wants to hire a rigid worker.

If you think about the persnickety habits of employers who don’t have time to waste on unqualified candidates, the story doesn’t seem too outrageous. After all, employers often spend less than a minute reading a résumé and they’ll toss your application in the wastebasket if you have a typo or don’t include a cover letter. Even a handshake can ruin your chances of landing the job. True or not—and in the case of the sodium-loving job seeker, probably not true—the story is a reminder not to give employers a reason to pick someone else. Everything you do is being used to decide whether or not you’re a good fit for the position.

Apparently not all job seekers know this. According to a recent Robert Half survey, job seekers keep making some egregious interview errors that are so outstanding you want to believe they’re joking. Unfortunately, that’s not the case.

Staffing firm Robert Half asked hiring managers to recount some of the most outstanding interview mistakes they’ve experienced or heard of, and the answers are almost unbelievable.

Some mistakes were peculiar:

  • “The candidate sent his sister to interview in his place.”
  • “One candidate sang all of her responses to interview questions.”
  • “When asked by the hiring manager if he had any questions for him, the candidate replied by telling a knock-knock joke.”
  • “An applicant wore the uniform from his former employer.”
  • “One prospect told me all of the reasons he shouldn’t be hired.”
  • “The candidate said she would really prefer a job offer from our competitor.”

Some were odd violations of interview etiquette:

  • “When asked by the hiring manager why she was leaving her current job, the applicant said, ‘My manager is a jerk. All managers are jerks.’”
  • “One individual said we had nice benefits, which was good because he was going to need to take a lot of leave in the next year.”
  • “An individual applied for a customer service job, and when asked what he might not like about the job, he said, ‘dealing with people.’”
  • “I interviewed someone who had a jawbreaker in her mouth during the entire interview.”
  • “A person came to the interview in pajamas with slippers.”
  • “The applicant told me he really was not interested in the position, but he liked that we allowed for a lot of time off.”

Others mistakes were bold but very misguided:

  • “One candidate handcuffed himself to the desk during the interview.”
  • “After being complimented on his choice of college and the GPA he achieved, the candidate replied, ‘I’m glad that got your attention. I didn’t really go there.’”
  • “A job applicant came in for an interview with a cockatoo on his shoulder.”
  • “The candidate arrived in a cat suit.”

Although job seekers are constantly looking for ways to stand out and impress interviewers, all of the above applicants stand out for the wrong reasons. Here are some basic guidelines to get you through an interview:

Mind your manners
Be polite, give a firm handshake, make eye contact, engage in conversation. Employers want to hire a nice person they’ll get along with, and finding out if you’re that person is one of the reasons they’re interviewing you.

Have innovative ideas
Handcuffing yourself to the interviewer’s desk says nothing about your skills. In fact, it overshadows your skills and experience. Rather than rely on gimmicks to grab the hiring manager’s attention, have some creative ideas to offer. Having some examples of what you’d like to do if you joined the company shows that you’re already thinking like a standout.

Dress appropriately
A cat suit isn’t really appropriate for most professional settings, nor is wearing a bird as an accessory. Few employers will be impressed by loud, flashy apparel unless you’re in a creative industry with a lax dress code. Stick to the industry norm when dressing for the interview. A professional but bright necktie or scarf can show your personality without becoming more memorable than you.

Ask yourself what the employer will remember
Whenever you’re thinking of taking a risk in an interview, whether it’s wearing a cat suit or sending your sister to the interview in your place, just ask yourself if there’s a reason people don’t normally do it. If you can think of one way, or many, that the plan could backfire, reconsider.

How about you, job seekers–have you ever looked back at a past interview and realized you made an outrageous mistake that causes you to cringe even to this day?

Anthony Balderrama

About Anthony Balderrama

Anthony Balderrama writes about hiring trends, workplace issues and job search tactics for CareerBuilder.com and its blog The Work Buzz. He was born and raised in Dallas (115° degrees isn’t hot!) before moving to Chicago (-23° isn’t cold!). He studied creative writing, therefore everything he writes is usually cut in half once he realizes he spent 400 words just on the intro. He knows that looking for a job and dealing with co-workers are not always fun activities, and reading about them is even less thrilling. That’s why he’ll take any opportunity he can to mention his favorite TV show or band in an article. Basically Anthony’s doing whatever he can to avoid hate mail.
212 comments
seriously126
seriously126

I have been professional, well dressed and groomed for all of my interviews but, two.  This was long before the current employment situation.

Did not want either  job and was only there under pressure from a Spouse.

At one of these, the interviewer, Director of Credit, asked how I liked working for so and so his protege. Told him I didn't and thought the Man was a total ass.  Well, didn't get that one Thank God.  The other interview, the person was asking highly personal questions and reminded him it was not essential to determing my capabilities.  The facts proved my worth.  His last question, which was really silly was, if you were a tree, what kind would you be?  I told him a Peckerwood.  That ended the conversation and mission accomplished per the plan.  Note, all other interviews I have had in life were , very well received.  Did not have to do many in order to win the positon.

 

Tbird
Tbird

Greg, that's a good point, but these are just comments posted quickly under an article. I want to take a minute to comment on the HR bashing that's been going on. It's a two way street. There are bad HR people who won't conduct an interview fairly, are vendetive, bored with their jobs, and just don't care as much as they should. Then there are the HR people who find someone better than a seemingly perfect candidate, but still get a bad wrap for rejecting them. There are bad interviewers, and then there are bad interviewees. You can't judge them all based on one bad experience. I think people should have an open mind. When you go into an interview, try to be as honest as you can without being as blatent as "I need the cash," even if it's true. They'll appreciate that. Try to communicate that you are willing to work to keep the job, and that you are flexible. Eye contact is important, but don't seem like you're looking down at them. And above all, DO NOT do ANYTHING that was mentioned in the above article! I found it pretty amusing, but obviously an interviewer would not. Good luck to everybody who is looking for a job, I sincerely hope you succeed.

Shawn Renfro
Shawn Renfro like.author.displayName 1 Like

How many times can MSN run the same story? The answer is: an infinite number.

Greg
Greg

With only a few exceptions, it's a darned good thing most of the commentors to this post never had to write anything to get a job. Is punctuation no longer taught in school? How about the difference between "their", "there" and "they're"? And perhaps my recent favorite, "should of" in place of "should have" or even "should've".
I'm not a personnel or hiring manager, but I can see why they're frustrated. If you want to see why you don't get hired, look at yourself harder. Of course there's discrimination. Of course there are unfair decisions and set-ups. But it's pretty hard to argue that you deserved a job more than another when you didn't bother to use spell check before sending a resume and cover letter.

Kathy
Kathy

I just got a great job - I dressed conservatively, no perfume, showered, shaved and brushed/flossed that morning. I paid alot of attention to getting my hair straight, neat and shiney. My makeup was very minimal - just enough to cover flaws, a litttle mascara (no eyeliner or shadow) and a light gloss for the lips with a hint of pink - very natural looking. I wore a pair of silver stud earrings and no other jewellry. My shoes were flats. The interviewer was very nice, and the interview was relaxed - there was a dog there who came in during the interview and jumped into my lap, so I petted him while the interviewer gave instructions to the dog's owner on how she wanted the carpets to be replaced. She apologized about the dog, but I was like, "I'm an animal person - no problem" (I am an animal person in fact). I think that was when she decided to hire me lol.

Shawanda
Shawanda

I have double D's and always ace my interviews. Moving up the ladder is just a few BJ's away.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

What -- no fem interviewers???  You one crafty chicka

Karen
Karen

I'm surprised no one has brought up the fact that unemployment is so high that where there used to be 20 candidates to a job, now there are 50. Sometimes you don't get the job due to the numbers! I used to get a guaranteed offer for nearly every job interview (I am in IT and have specialized skills.) Not anymore! Things are better for me now as I have managed to obtain skills in several different industries within IT.
Story 1: I had an interview where the interviewer told me it was his experience that state employees never work hard. I was working for the Port Authority at that time and thanked him for saving me time on my job hunt and I left.
Story 2: There was an interviewer who asked me if I was a flower, what kind of flower would I be?
Story 3: How do you spell Java? (He saw it on my resume and thought it was mispelled -- I dunno, maybe he thought it needed two v's.) I didn't not accept a callback interview as this was the IT manager and I thought it boded badly for working with him.
Story 4: My two interviewers were so friendly and comical, they got me laughing at the start of the interview and it continued all the way through. And I thought it would be a wonderful place to work. After a totally enjoyable 45 minute interview, Beth said to Elliot "I like her! She laughs at my jokes!" and Elliot agreed, I got an offer before I got home, and it was one of the best places I ever worked! My one fashion faux pas? Never wear heels to a steel mill!

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

It's always pleasurable reading interesting interview stories. Thx for sharing! lol

Lesley
Lesley

True! Everyone keeps blaming the shortcomings of the HR managers for not getting hired, but when you have 100 applicants for 1 job (not uncommon anymore), they have to make selections somehow, and to me that does sometimes mean having to be petty when you have several great possibilities.

Jared
Jared like.author.displayName 1 Like

“When asked by the hiring manager if he had any questions for him, the candidate replied by telling a knock-knock joke.”

I'd hire that guy.

Lesley
Lesley

I had an extremely frustrating experience in applying for a job. I applied for a data management position at a local hospital. I received notice that they had narrowed the selection down to two candidates, me and a woman I'll call "Beverly". The hiring manager opted not to conduct interviews, and simply went with Beverly due to her 20 years of experience versus my 5 years (she is also about 20 years older than I am). She also has multiple friends in the department, I did have one connection that I'm sure got me as far as I did.

Now, 6 months later, I've heard from my friend who works there that hiring Beverly was a big mistake, because she does not understand Excel well enough and has had to have extensive training in the basics. A simple interview would have quickly separated our skill sets from each other and I would have actually had an opportunity.

Networking is great for getting the company to at least look at you, but the companies should remember that just because someone is a friend, it doesn't mean they're the right fit.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

And you are so not alone in your frustrations. I've met countless candidates who've been 'passed over' for great opps  with any number of excuses, including company/hiring familiarity. While no one is perfect, Assumption should be a deadly sin.

 

My dad owned a biz when we were teens and narrowed a job opp down to two young guys; the one, my bros knew well. The other, a mere acquaintance. Sure the friend had experience, and the other was an 'intern' but appeared very serious. Dad took the 'friend', of course. He didn't turn out so great. Dad let him go and called the 'intern' and apologized. New guy not only was a great worker, but the contractor upped the bid, giving them even more $$.

 

Don't we just love it when common sense is allowed over ride?

Familiarity should never assume "right fit"

 

Dee - SoCali
Dee - SoCali like.author.displayName 1 Like

Well my company had an opening in purchasing, and the manager hired a man, because he was "cute" and appeared to have the skills for the job. On his first day, he showed up unkept, and smelling of pot. One hour after he started we were told by our screening company he had failed his drug test. During his first and only hour, during his orientation he informed the manager that hired him that he thought he would be out in the field not at a desk in the office. Let me remind you the job was in the purchasing department ! LOL

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

That is indeed LOL when the 'candidate' soon forgets the job he/she interviewed and was initially hired for...

(I'll kindly refrain any name calling)

NaCl
NaCl

Perhaps he thought his job was to purchase weed at the local street corner.

Amy
Amy

In re: “One candidate sang all of her responses to interview questions.”
I wonder if she had a fluency disorder - therapists do teach people to sing if they are unable to communicate. Remember Mel Tillis?

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Unless she was a singer (like the legendary Tillis) and applying for such an applicable job, it would have been interesting to see how she would handle her duties if hired... :)

Melissa
Melissa

I am sure that there is discrimination out there as some individuals on this comment board have stated. However, I must say that overall the negativity and the excuses that have come up could be an indicator as to why you didn’t “get the job [you] deserved” and were “more qualified” than anyone else. You will be amazed at what you can pick up in an interview by recruiters and managers, as someone previously noted – the job is yours to lose. And you may have been a perfectly qualified candidate with stellar skills, but in this economy there are about 100 people (if not more) for every position that is available. So perhaps you were not the most qualified for the salary they were looking to hire into. You have no idea what other candidates walk through that door, so instead of wasting your time figuring out all the reasons for this “injustice” perhaps take a peek at what you can improve on for your next interview.
And for all of you who criticize the recruiting process, obviously it’s not perfect but then again it is a process and recruiters and managers look at a total package not just one aspect. So, while you may be qualified as far as experience and skill set, however if you bring an attitude into an interview as well as torn clothes then I am sorry you have a few things to learn. It is not only about your skills, it is about cost effectiveness (saving money on training, benefits, etc). It is also about appearance – not because we care about your labels of clothing - but that you care enough about your appearance and desire for the job that you make an effort and iron your shirt. This does not need to be an expensive endeavor. There are plenty of thrift stores and discount stores that have professional dress for cheap prices. You are representing yourself and your company so professional dress and behavior is a desirable when you’re interviewing – regardless of the type of company you’re applying to.
And just so you all know – employers read job boards, Facebook, twitter, and the like as well. So for those of you who don’t think that we are – be warned – these places can help or hinder your employment search as well.

Valerie
Valerie

Always, "Be Yourself". If you're happy with who you are, honest and sincere, that will come through in your interview.

I do need do make a comment abou some of the people working in HR. Some of them have the notion that they are much further up the company ladder than they actually are. Funny thing is, if they were to interview the company's CEO for a position, would they get hired?

flounder
flounder

Take a bath you hippy! interracial children are adorable!

Steve
Steve

I want to meet the CEO Playboy bunny. OooWee.

Crystal
Crystal

Even when I did not want to work for a particular company, but needed that "job" as stated above, to pay the bills, I still dressed the professional part, even to go fill out the applications. It makes me shake my head to see some people that come in my present place of employment! I am NOT in HR...but as you walk by the reception area and see a husband, wife AND kids sitting there I cringe. Seriously, if you are INSISTING your spouse apply you could probably still wait in the car with the kiddos. It is discouraging to know companies have lowered their starting pays while the directors, manangers, and ceos have not taken a cut.

Nick
Nick

I had a person working for a competitor come to an interview with examples of papers he had written. It was great work. The problem was that the papers had a large watermark across them that said "CONFIDENTIAL - For Internal Use Only".

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Talk about your "oooops!!!" moments...

Nick
Nick

I did a phone interview with a woman for a position involving the use of a relatively new technology. She had no experience with the technology (it's new, so it wasn't a requirement), but she did have experience with other similar technologies. I brought her in for an in-person interview a couple days later. I asked her if she had researched the new technology at all, and she said she hadn't.

Two days is plenty of time (especially when you're unemployed) to find ten minutes to visit a wikipedia page. This showed lack of motivation, and she was not hired.

Fran
Fran

Here is another piece of advice for anybody that is searching for a job and needs to inquire about a job. Never let anybody else call for you about the job. If you do, employers don't take it too kindly especially those employers that are very corporate.

I remember one summer when I was applying for camp counselor job at 17 years old I figured that since I was so busy at school that my mother would inquire about the job for me. Well the person that answered the phone in the end of the conversation said, "She should have made the call." I think this is the reason why I was not hired back for the following summer and the fact that I was treated like crap while I worked there that previous summer.

It doesn't matter what job you are looking for if you are relying on others to do the work for you, the employer will think you are not capable of working on your own. Do yourself a favor and do the work yourself.

Thank you

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

That should really be a common sense rule.

 

I once was witness, while awaiting my 'turn' in a Temp office, to a phone call (the reception area was very small) of your description. While the desk gal was polite (and civil), she stated very clearly to that caller that she had no information for him, that his friend (the Candidate) should have called and NOT HIM.

Shugah
Shugah

Im curious about the guy that handcuffed himself to the desk and the guy that showed up in a catsuit... I would SOOO do that xD

sam hall
sam hall

As far as salting his food goes, can we assume that he's eaten in restaurants before, and finds, in general, that he prefers more salt than the cook provides? Is he presumptuous, or self-assured? Personally, I can't stand ketchup; would HR expect me to slather it on my French fries, scrambled eggs, rib steak, to re-verify this every time? If so, would I seem indecisive, insecure?

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

I seriously cannot fathom any Interviewer nitpicking over such an unimportant detail. If it were high blood pressure or deeper health concern with the Interviewer, that's a tad understandable. But it being a frown against the Candidate? Ludicrous. So the candidate likes salt. So what?

 

When I consider a few lunch interviews I've had (as the Candidate); wine was offered, and consumed...present parties SALTED their food...Big deal!

 

I'd be seriously reconsidering the Interviewers attitude AND mindset...

BobG
BobG

To all those people who are bashing the HR person, I'm an HR person. Trust me, I interview the hiring manager before I recruit to be certain that I understand the job requirements almost to the point of being able to do the job myself. And I read EVERY resume. at least to the point where I know that the candidate is either potentially qualified or completely unqualified.

If you read the comments on this blog you can see what the problem is. Candidates who can't spell or use poor grammar. Candidates who have an "attitude" where they are more concerned for themselves and really don't care what the employer needs from the relationship. Or candidates who think they know mroe than the interviewer.

Now for the amusement: I have on more than one occasion had a candidate in an interview who not only had their cell phone ring but who also interrupted the interview to take the call! But I'm certain that's also what they do everywhere else. No doubt this person will be taking personal phone calls all day at work. And no doubt this person places themselves first and everybody else, including their employer, last. NEXT!

Kathy
Kathy

I completely agree with what you are saying. I am a little older myself and I remember graduating from college (yay!). I bought special paper and envelopes to mail to potential employers with my resume. It was an ordeal getting an interview. In those days you wore suits and pearls to an interview, and you brought your BEST game. No interruptions. And the resume better be a publishable piece lol.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Lol Kathy...

I think some actually miss those 'good ol days' of the fancy paper resume. With technology submissions, I'll bet the old paper mill workers miss their former jobs! :)

Sean
Sean like.author.displayName 1 Like

While conducting and interview via Skype. The person I was interviewing came to the camra in a tee-shirt and on the shelf behind him was a 3 foot tall bong. The interview ended quickly and he was not hired...

quesak
quesak like.author.displayName 1 Like

What about that "handshake" that makes you want to drop to your knees and cry UNCLE!! I've had men squeeze my hand so hard and I find that offensive.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

I interviewed once with a young college grad who appeared near anorexic (guess she just naturally was THAT thin. Prob weighed less 80 lbs.) Her 'handshake' (if you could refer it so) was almost nothing; barely the very tips of her very thin, manicured fingers...

 

 

Kathy
Kathy

I've had that happen to me...omg why do they want to break your hand lol...is it supposed to be a sign of aggression to come? I worked for that guy for 3 months before I could find another position...He did prove to be a jerk almost immediately (he had a terrible potty mouth at meetings and in general (he also referred to women as 'bitches' in general conversation - perhaps sexist?) - very aggressive, nasty man.

Sandra
Sandra

A lot of the comments during interviews were really stupid. I wonder where some of these people come from.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Sandra, you'd be surprised!

 

I once did one of those horrid group interviews (cattle call) - for a call center position. One of male candidates; young post-HS kid, not only wore Bermudas (yah - shorts to an interview) and a printed tee shirt, but also had his ipod with him.

 

The HM (hiring manager) had to tell this kid TWICE to put the ipod away (he even played it during a computer testing session!)  Then, the kid took a text.. I was dead amazed that the HM didn't just excuse the kid.

 

Before the 'interview' session wrapped, the kid asks HM if 'we were all done yet, his ride was here'...

George
George

Don't overlook the fact that people receiving unemployment benefits are required every couple weeks to show that they at least attempted to find a job

I'd bet most of these "inept job-seekers" were deliberately trying to sabotage their getting hired

Some advice for anyone else who wants to wants to certify that they interviewed for a job but just weren't offered it = show up for the interview drunk

paul
paul

sometimes I wonder if the person doing the interview is looking for the right person. I recently was asked a question over an incident that occurred 5 years ago in a different state. Like I am going to remember all facs pertaining to something unrelated to me. So i BS through the question. I feel they should stick to now and me and what I am all about. If you want to ask something not pertaining to me. Let me read the incident as I am sitting there then ask for a response.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

I once had the interview exp you describe. The HR even went as far as to try and kid after asking me about the incident. I politely chuckled back and somehow finished the interview. Needless to add I did not return their 2nd interview phone call offer..

 

Please don't beat a dead horse, or even joke about it. Sadly, some Hiring people are just very poorly prepared, or have nothing better to do.

Mario
Mario

As a manager when we have an opening I am looking for a cheap peone that will work overtime for nothing, never complain, never be sick, smile and be happy all the time that I can vent my frustrations on, and first of all has a beautiful wife that I can pork.... still looking

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Sarcasm... always anticipated :)

Mike
Mike

I have found this to be the case more times than not. HR personnel are clueless when it comes to filling technical positions. They are impressed by paper certifications irrespective of whether the person can actually perform the job or not and their technical limitations do not allow them to tell a fully capable person from resume padder.

I was working at a job fair once and on a break when around to other company's stands to see what was on offer and ran across a job for a C++ programmer that required 6+ years of C++ experience. I had to turn around quickly to hide my laughter because at that time C++ had only been around for two years at the most and had not even had ANSI certification yet. How on earth could someone honestly apply for that job? The bigger question is what moron wrote that particular experience requirement? The HR person can only look at the requirement and compare it to the resume. Even if you had been working with C++ for its entire existence that two years would not be enough to get you in the door for the interview.

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Reminds me of an interview a good friend had at a Tech place I'd worked, back in the 90's. She knew Word Perfect well, but hadn't learned enough Excel nor Lotus just yet. During the interview, she'd slipped badly when asked about her computer skills and stated how she enjoyed doing Lotus software spreadsheets and performing framing graphics hardware in Excel.Ouch! She'd clearly gotten her tech knowledge all lopsided.

 

My boss was pleasant enough after she'd left. And obviously my friend was not hired. But I felt horribly for her  -  wondered how many other interviews she'd flubbed, in this same respect...

Terry
Terry

In reading most or all the comments made on how to conduct yourself during and interview, I found it quite intersting that discrimination is running rampted through out the United States. I agree with the lady that stated she feels that she didn't get the job because of the gray around her temples. Gee...how many young people out there have premature gray temples????

Experience and job knowledge is highly overlooked during most job interviews. My experince has been, most interviewers don't take the time to read your resume throughly. They are taught to pull out "key words", that are in alignment with what they deem the job requirements are.

Webster Dictionary is full of words that mean the same, but if you don't have the "key words" they are looking for you are doomed.

While the internet is the only way to apply for most positions, it doesn't matter how good your resume is or cover letter is written. You are just a number, and if you are lucky enough to get a response, well guess what...you just won the lottery.

In today's world, it isn't what you know, it's who you know. It is a proven fact that if you apply for a job with a company that you have a friend or neighbor working at the same company, your chances of getting that position are higher than if you didn't know anyone at all.....

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

You are dead on, Terry - esp regarding the actual resume reading... Oh, how many joke interviews I've had; the Interviewer (usually male) who was either handed mine, last-minute or just didn't bother, period... proceeds to inquire about my education...(ahem) it's right there - top section - bold print. A blind person could see it...

 

Sadly, much of it is an absurd numbers game.However, with the still high unemployment rate, not very uncommon. Job seekers remain a dime a dozen...it's still an employers market. Most every job "fair" you attend these days is nearly packed with hapless (job) seekers. And even then you feel 'blessed' to get just one follow up interviewing interest.

 

Last two job fairs I attended were a joke. Of the 55 company's present, only about a dozen were "normal" employers (not temp agencies, outsourcing, or military recruiting). Way sad.

 

Angela
Angela

Could I please get some advice on handling a common interview question?

I was fired from my last job for being late -one time cite, no prior warnings, write-ups, etc. There were other issues at play, but I do not feel it's proper to bring those up in an interview as that would be coming off as negative, etc.

I was asked why did I leave my previous job. I honestly answered I was terminated. Of course they asked why and I stated I was late once. That is the official reason given on termination papers.

I had an incredibly successful track record at this sales-oriented position, average 40% over goal in three years. Clearly the fact given for being terminated would be questioned. Again, I do not think it is correct to go into a back story that involves being written up while on FMLA and, of course, it had to be rescinded.

Because I'm pretty certain this would be found out anyway, I thought it was better to concisely state the reason...just the reason given on my official paperwork.

I have been called back, then immediately frozen out---terse communication. I was given a lame reason--it wasn't even that they found a more qualified candidate just that they would not be extending me an offer. When I asked if there was anything to prove the value I would bring to the company, answer was blunt "no."

How should I handle this in the future? I didn't badmouth previous organization or boss.

Nora
Nora

Angela, 3 questions I think every candidate should be prepared for are, "Why did you leave your last position?" "What would you consider to be your worst qualities?" and "Do you have any questions for me?" If you were fired on a single late arrival, your interviewer will suspect there were other problems, and the boss was just looking for an excuse. Think about what the real reasons might be, then distill those reasons into a short answer, followed by your worth to the company, such as "I was terminated for being late to work one day. Unfortunately, it was right after returning to work when my baby was born. Perhaps they had forgotten that I had consistently exceeded sales goals in my department." In other words, sound like you forgive them for their mistake, but want to make their mistake into the new company's gain.

Angela
Angela

Thanks, Nora. I appreciate the suggestion to say, "perhaps they had forgotten that I had consistently exceeded sales goals in my department." I have a better idea now how to word it.

It was a frustrating situation for everyone and I would never bring it up in an interview.

A previously undiagnosed neurological condition reeked havoc in my life. I made mistakes before I was diagnosed and owned up to them as they happened. I can understand though that, due to the nature of the condition, it had to affect their trust in my ability to perform.

Everything is under control now, but this is
hard to overcome.

Thanks, again. I appreciate it!

oprlvr33
oprlvr33

Your advice was spot on, Nora. At a few job workshops I've attended, the facilitators iterated this factor:  always turn a Negative into a Positive (regardless what the circumstance be.)

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  2. [...] by someone unfamiliar with interviewing etiquette. CareerBuilder’s career blog, TheWorkBuzz, recently supplied a new list—the contents of which were provided by staffing firm Robert Half—wh…, detailing acts so absurd, they seem almost to come straight from the mind of Kurt [...]

  3. [...] by someone unfamiliar with interviewing etiquette. CareerBuilder’s career blog, TheWorkBuzz, recently supplied a new list—the contents of which were provided by staffing firm Robert Half—wh…, detailing acts so absurd, they seem almost to come straight from the mind of Kurt [...]

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